Why Haters Hate You

When someone always hate what you do, you begin to ask yourself what did I do wrong? When you have exhausted the possible reasons why, you begin to conclude “Wow that person really HATES me”. Well here is one reason WHY.

Haters don’t really hate you. In fact they hate THEMSELVES because YOU are a reflection of what they wish to be. This may look like an expanded form of the quote above but to go further, people who hate or despise you, inspite of doing the right thing in life, still manages to find fault in what you do. This is their escape of trying to HIDE their insecurities when they see your accomplishments and personality. By trying to see only your probable weaknesses and mistakes, it feeds their egoes that somehow they have an advantage over you.

By getting ahead of them when it comes to job promotions or having a happy life, they get hurt seeing those things in YOU.

Somtimes you can’t control people to like you but you can manage how to deal with haters. Don’t despair, you are not alone in this. Even celebrities and noble personalities get some dose of unpleasant treatment from haters. One perfect example is Jesus. He has done NO SIN in his life. He healed the sick and feed many people but despite all of this, there were betrayals and haters.

I think when you know you’re a good person by heart, haters have a very difficult time proving you wrong. The more you keep yourself being busy helping others and reaching your goal, the more successful you will be in your life.

Just ignore haters and move on. Don’t let their distractions bother you but instead look at the brighter side of what you have-PEACE OF MIND.